Advice on dating older guys

10 May

Know what you are getting yourself into before you get in too deep. Not only will she be less likely to make your lives less of a living hell, but she’s the best resource for learning who this man is. Plus, if he was ever abusive or unkind to her, you need to know.

Of course some women are bitter and may not be the best judge of your new man’s character.

But, if he has a psycho ex, do you want to bring that into your life?

If you are drawn to older men for the security they bring, don’t judge him by his expensive suits, watch and nice car.

He may have had a wealthy ex-wife or he may be paying a huge chunk of his salary to his ex-wife and kids.

Don’t be afraid to express your opinions or offer your advice.

Even if it’s only for a short time, the experience you will gain will be priceless.

Once you know what it’s like to be in a mature relationship, you may decide to never date men your age again.

Pay attention to the way he’s treating you and the language he uses.

This will tell you a great deal about his intentions. Just because a man is older and has more experience doesn’t mean he knows everything.