Best friend dating ex girlfriend

12 Mar

But sometimes, the heart wants what it wants (sorry for getting Selena Gomez stuck in your head).

If you date him, you could lose her friendship forever.

I’m not saying go ahead and jump your friend’s ex right now.

It all comes down to how your friend feels about it. Remember, it’s a tricky situation and if you don’t do your homework, you could lose your best friend. If it’s been a few years and your bestie has definitely moved on, give it a go. You were a good friend and kept your feelings to yourself for long enough.

It's about taking that bond and stretching it to accommodate new people.

Thank goodness, then, that you both have new birds simultaneously!

As long as you respect her wishes, you won’t lose her as a friend and you’ll know for sure whether to date the ex or not.

Dear Hot Stuff, My best friend just so happens to be my ex-girlfriend.I know some people might find this strange but it's always worked out for us. We're trying to all get along together but there are obviously tensions below the surface that I can't quite put my finger on.We are all four about to attempt a trip away together... Sarah, Islington Dear Incestuous in Islington, Good gosh! In principal, I'm a big advocate of successful relationships (if indeed the relationship was successful), enduring and transforming into friendships over time. Crystal Crowder Crystal Crowder is a freelance writer and blogger. You’ve probably had a thing for the guy while he was with your best friend. Never, under any circumstances, try to date the ex right after they broke up. Use your best judgment and hopefully you’ll get the friend and the guy.