Dating your flag

19 Jan

How do you feel when the two of you are together—amorous or anxious?

Consider this: If you are actually spending an inordinate amount of time strategizing your clothes, hair, and even conversation topics before going out with someone, that individual is probably not the right person for you.

“No one expects to meet in person after just a couple of emails, but if you’ve been corresponding regularly, it’s expected that you’ll take your relationship offline.

But as time goes on, every date should not feel like a performance.

If your date instructs you never to call on evenings and weekends or will call you only from a restricted number, there’s a good chance that she’s trying to keep you a secret.

You’ve done it—you’ve found a person online who seems to be perfect for you.

Sure, a bit of anxiety is normal, and might even motivate you to bring your best game to what could be a promising new relationship.

But if you are overly apprehensive every time you get together with someone new, it might be a sign that although they might be a great person, they may not be the best fit for .