Red flags for dating divorced men intimidating soccer chants

24 Dec

A healthy purpose for a dating relationship is to discern possible marriage.

Otherwise the dating relationship is nothing more than selfishness of either one or both people.

A good follow-up question to ask is, “If this person is still married, what is his purpose in dating me?

” At this point it can’t be to get married because legally he can’t get remarried.

However, it’s astounding how many people, Christians and non-Christians, get into relationships with people before they are legally divorced.

I imagine this is evidence of our societal apathy towards the marriage covenant.

I see them making choices about dating divorced men similar to ones I made.Choices based on the present but without enough regard on the past.These similarities make me think it is wise for women to ask four questions before dating a divorced man.In my experience, I should have taken these red flags more seriously:1) extreme jealousy which manifests many of delusional jealousy symptoms which I only learned afterwards.2) anger management issues - he was already showing some signs that he cant control his temper.3) manifestation of violence - they started with intentionally crashing the car with car behind us because he we had a fight.After marriage it escalated to him laying his hands on me and our daughter.4) pathological lying - he lies and would happily tell me how he have fooled people.